“He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will be destroyed.”
Proverbs 13:20 NKJV
I realised over time that I chose my friends based on their work ethic. It was an important value for me, and I couldn’t imagine getting close to people who were comfortable with mediocrity.
But work ethic is only one of many values that make one wise. Because of this, I’ve had to expand my criteria and learn to value my relationships more.
Just because you attend the same church or work at the same company as someone doesn’t mean you have to befriend them. Being an acquaintance is enough for those who don’t exactly align with you. But those who constantly make wise decisions should be drawn closer.
The way I see it, walking with God is the primary source of wisdom. To expand that network to men of wisdom, the best way is to ask God to make referrals.
It’s just like networking: identify one person and get into their network. So, let’s start asking for introductions. I’m sure God has an extensive list.
How does a wise company at work help us excel?
If you walk with wise men in your home community and fools at work, that work is in trouble. Likewise, if you are not a wise person at work, wise people won’t want you in their mix.
So, the first step is to ask yourself, “Am I a wise person?” If your answer to that is no, based on your assessment of your past decisions, current circumstances, reputation, and feedback from others, then it’s something to talk to God about.
As you begin to take wise steps, a mix of people will come close to you, just like David, who attracted runaways like him. But over time, you’ll get closer to some than others. I pray that wisdom stays closer.
“I embrace the opportunity to grow through my relationships.”
It’s time to assess your relationships. You may not have a partner or deal with customers, but you may have loved ones, a team, etc.
Write down two things you learned about these people and see whether your assessment qualifies as wisdom.
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